Healing Insights by Judith Swack, PHD

James ’s brother, Samuel , sustained severe traumatic brain injury from a car accident. He spent the year going to many doctors for treatment, but could barely function. Samuel complained that not only did standard medical care not help him, but the doctors ignored and mistreated him. Whenever James suggested any complementary therapies, such as acupuncture, chiropractic, or HBLU, Samuel immediately came up with excuses as to why going for that kind of treatment was impossible. (Notice that he didn’t claim that that kind of treatment wouldn’t work. He just made it impossible to get there.) James said, “Even though I feel really guilty about it, I’ve stopped trying to help him because he makes everything impossible.” Monica ’s 25-year-old son, Ed , suffers from such severe debilitating Crohn’s disease that he couldn’t finish high school, can’t work, can’t leave the house, and can barely leave his room. Traditional medical care and medication is not helping. Monica and her husband bought him a dog thinking that would cheer him up, but Ed does not interact with it. Monica has suggested and made appointments for many complementary therapies such as nutrition, naturopathy, family therapy, and HBLU, but Ed refuses to go to these appointments. Monica experiences guilt and deep sorrow that her son is so ill, and she and her husband haven’t been able to help him. Valerie ’s partner, Nancy , is 200 pounds overweight, suffers from ADD and severe anxiety, and hates her job. Nancy had been on medication for the ADD and anxiety, but when her psychiatrist retired, never attempted to find another provider and let her medication lapse. When Valerie suggested that Nancy find new doctors and get back on medication to help her mental function and treatment for overweight, Nancy refused to make any follow-up phone calls or emails. Although they had gotten engaged in the Spring, by Fall, Valerie had asked for the ring back. Valerie said, “I don’t think I can live with her if she refuses to take care of herself and won’t let me help her.” What do James, Monica, and Valerie all have in common? They feel deep sorrow, guilt, and frustration that they can’t help someone they care about deeply. But the people who are suffering are also trapped in a pattern that continues to cause them suffering. Both the impotent helpers and the perpetual sufferers are trapped in a seducer strategy called, “I’m impossible.” What is a Seduction Pattern? Seduction patterns are some of the most energy draining, perverse, and frustrating patterns a person can experience. People with seduction patterns get tricked into doing things they don’t want to do. They are unable to leave bad relationships, jobs, family, or other upsetting situations.

One of my favorite projects is getting people happily married. To do that I did quite a bit of original research and discovered that just as there are psychological child development stages, there are 3 psychological relationship readiness stages.

By MARЀ SCHURIAN – Dissertation Submitted in accordance with the requirements for the degree of MASTER OF ARTS in the subject of Psychology at the UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH AFRICA Supervisor: Dr Beate von Krosigk November 2013 Paper: Addressing Difficulties with Change Dissertation Schurian M

Staying Strong in a Traumatized Economy Part I.

Many people have difficulty dealing with disappointment. When something they really want or worked hard for doesn’t come through, they get overwhelmed by disappointment, give up hope and stop dead in their tracks. Interestingly, when used well, disappointment can become a powerful motivating energy, and here’s a Neuro-Linguistic Programming technique for doing just that!

Life is complex and we often need to make decisions that where we need to consider many factors. It’s easy to feel confused when making business, relationship, health, and career plans.

Many people carry negative or aberrant definitions of God. They believe that God is cruel, punishing, uncaring, critical, weak, a monster, an idiot, nonexistent, etc. Some people believe that God has gender (ie.God/Goddess) or age (old man with a beard). These definitions are caused by damage patterns such as traumas, layers of the Enneagram wound, or family or religious teaching. In every case that I have tested, the client’s deepest wisdom tells us that these negative or absent definitions of God do not serve them. Many people are unaware, ashamed or afraid to admit that they have these negative beliefs because they were taught to think of God as loving, forgiving, kind, generous, all-powerful, etc. Individuals may not relate personally to the positive representations of God that are present in the culture and feel guilty, pressured, or isolated when they don’t agree. Thus, it is important for people to find an internal representation and personal way of experiencing God that serves their highest good and t

An overtangle is a supernatural entity from the dark. It forms a network of negative energy so large that it contaminates large organizations and segments of society. I encountered my first overtangle while working on the goal of getting the HBLU™ methodology out into the world. When I found that I did not have permission to balance for the goal, our colleague Helen Tuggy figured out that the priority interference was an overtangle contaminating the entire western scientific/medical establishment. This made sense to me when I remembered that one of the diagnostic characteristics of a tangle in a system is that people get very angry and fight about absolutely nothing. Notice how the western scientific/medical establishment has always been actively hostile towards any new findings even from within its own ranks let alone from outside (alternative) sources.

Since the intention of terrorists is to terrorize us, I think the best way to individually counteract the effects of terrorism is to treat ourselves for trauma and clear it from the mind and body in minutes. To that end, I am sharing a 15 minute natural bio-destressing technique modified from the Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) (1) that removes traumatic reactions from the mind and body and allows us to regain our sense of optimism, strength and enthusiasm for life